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Thursday, May 18, 2006

Cancer + Cancer

Water + Water = Deluge

The combination of the two watery signs of Cancer becomes an overly emotional affair. With Cancer being a changeable sign, stability for the two of you - being highly sensitized emotional people - is likely to be a challenge, but by no means impossible. You are both caring individuals and love to express that through your attention to the needs of the other. This combination is perfect for family life, child-rearing and quieter domestic pursuits. You are both very receptive to others and always try to help alleviate the problems of those around you by taking on their emotional traumas. You must both learn not to fall victim to each other by becoming mirrors to each other's weaknesses. Because your empathy is so strong, you may tend to drown each other with sentimentality.

Notwithstanding the excess of emotions in this relationship, this really can be a good combination as you resonate with each other's moods and shifting states of mind. The water signs can sometimes express much of this in community and humanitarian ideals. If both of you so choose, your combined forces will be formidable and can create success in whatever line you choose. Having children together will be an even greater motivation for you to succeed and provide the love and care that is so much a part of your nature.

Cancer & Cancer

When two Cancerians come together in a love affair, a loving and yet very emotional domestic relationship ensues. A Cancer-Cancer match makes for a deeply devoted duo, endlessly loyal to one another. Both will learn the ins-and-outs of their partner, the best ways to heat each other up or, if necessary, to cool one another down. Both will also find great comfort and satisfaction in their underlying commitment to one another. This couple is faithful and caring, helpful and sympathetic of individual needs and very oriented toward making a home and creating a sense of family -- especially when they can get over their brooding, manipulative and self-pitying habits. If they can find a way to keep their fluid and moody emotions in check, this relationship will nurture both lovers.

A Cancer's place is in the home. Once safely entrenched in their personal sanctuary, the moody Crab may forget about the world outside, not paying mind to the opinions of others, only concerned with what's going on behind their own closed doors. This attitude carries over into relationships: Like their cherished possessions and material comforts, Cancer never hesitates to defend a loved one if threatened. This devotion and willingness to fight and toil for the survival and success of their relationships are really a Crab's greatest contributions to the game of love. It's no wonder Cancer's symbol is the 'crabby' scuttling Crab, for outbursts and flare-ups are common with this emotional crustacean. While their mood swings may injure each other's feelings, it's a Cancer's subtle mastery of the fine art of emotional manipulation that one should watch out for.

The Moon (Emotion) rules Cancer, and this Sign is sensitive to the moods that ebb and flow with the Moon's monthly cycles. The Moon, the maternal orb of the heavens, is the celestial force behind Cancer's great maternal and care-giving nature. The energy of this instinct creates a warm, secure home environment, a perfect love nest for the growing and cultivation of a healthy relationship.

Cancer is a Water Sign. Instinct and emotion drive this relationship. With these deep, intense intuitive powers comes a fragility, as Cancer's feelings are brittle and easily hurt. Hence, that Crabby shell in which they hide themselves when frightened or overwhelmed. So often retreating to their shells can put a strain on any relationship with a Cancer, but two Crabs together will hopefully be perceptive of each other's needs for personal space and temporary time-outs. The key is realizing that it's not a personal slight if one of these Cancers wants some alone-time. This Watery element of their nature can protect them and their loved ones from the harsh realities of the outside world.

Cancer is a Cardinal Sign. Though not the most physically active of the Signs, a Cancer's quick emotional reflexes and powers of perception offer an alternate line of defense under stress. The Crab is not shy about getting exactly what they want from their partner. The protecting feral beast within is the first emotional element to leap forward under stress or a threat to the pack. However, these bursts of emotion may overwhelm a Cancer and crush their tender feelings. Fierce loyalty binds this Cancer-Cancer love match, but it can also threaten its very existence. Both partners must always strive to see things from their lover's point of view as well as their own.

What's the best thing about the Cancer-Cancer love match? Their utter devotion to enriching their commitment and the strong emotional bond between them. Together, this pair will protect one another and keep their love safe from the outside world, as well as work toward creating a happy domestic life and nurturing a loving family.

CANCER AND CANCER

They have a lot in common, and that's the trouble. They understand each other perfectly and can wound each other without even trying. Both are too sensitive, too demanding, too dependent. Cancers are obsessively concerned with their emotional psyches: Each needs an enormous amount of attention, coddling, and reassurance, and resents the other for not giving enough. On the plus side, they're sensual bedmates whose erotic imaginations are sparked by each other. But that's rarely enough. This treadmill goes nowhere.

Cancer and Cancer

This combination can make a beautiful love out of their married life, because each will have a sympathetic understanding for the other's moods, wishes desires, and needs. Though there are times were they can totally disagree, with each clinging to the experience and teaching of early childhood, each will understand the other. Both will have the tenacity of glue on paper, once its there it will be there regardless of peril. Each will give sympathetic consideration to this trait in the other, and they should have no trouble in finding constant bliss.

Together you are far too negative for this union to work. Emotional problems will exist throughout the entire relationship. (Source: Love Test)

This match may seem to be a good idea at first, but it won't be strong enough to last. Pairing with a Cancer boy will be comfortable in the beginning, because it's sometimes nice to be with someone who is similar in nature. However, you are both very sensitive and you need a lot of reassurance - and you won't be able to give it to each other. It's easy for feelings to get hurt on both sides in this relationship. (Source: Jellybean's Astro-Soulmate Guide)

When Cancer girl and Cancer boy team up, it's not always smooth sailing. While you may care deeply for each other and share plenty of wonderful moments, you're both ultimately ruled by your emotions, which can make for an unstable dating life. (Source: FUNgirl - Astrology)

Too much in common to make a go of it. Too sensitive to put up with each other. Both need too much attention and neither can give as much as the other needs. Both are too sensitive, demanding and too dependent. They are however matched in the bedroom department but that is not enough to build a relationship on. (Source: Astrology Fun)

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