butterflyy...

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Name: Elaine Chong
Age: 22
Birthday: 15 July 1985
Horoscope: Cancer
Zodiac: Cow
School: NUS FASS

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MY LIKES:
sleeping, watching tv
eating, shopping
singing, reading magazines
and getting As for exams

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MY DISLIKES:
waking up early
exam stress
falling ill
being broke
and getting fat

Monday, July 12, 2004

Tidied up my room again today.. if you can remember, i tidied up my room only 3 weeks ago... but now its so messy...so i've got to clear up the mess again!
And i cleaned my hamsters' cage also... i think they are so cute..
They are dwarf hamsters.. species name is Roborovskii.. they are about 2 years old now... suppose to be equivalent to about 60+ years old in humans.. but they are still as active as ever..

Recently been reading this psychology book called 'The Road Less Travelled' by M.Scott Peck... There's this chapter about dependency in relationships. Some people might be too dependent on his/her partner and feel that he/she cannot live without the other..This kind of people are said to have 'passive dependent personality disorder'... People with this disorder are so busy seeking to be loved that they have no energy left to love. It is as if within them they have an inner emptiness, a bottomless pit crying out to be filled but which can never be completely filled. They tolerate loneliness very poorly and they have no real sense of identity. Such people often end up with failed relationships as the depended party becomes too overwhelmed and dread the relationship.

Quotes:

"The only way to be assured of being loved is to be a person worthy of love."

"Two people love each other only when they are capable of living without each other but choose to live with each other."

___* flyy aaaaaawayz *___ 11:25 PM

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